Praying with the Family

OK ... you can each open one gift before Christmas

By Deacon Mark Krejci, Ph.D./Office of Marriage, Family & Life

When I was a child, our family opened presents on Christmas Eve. My mom would prepare her special Christmas Eve meal, Grandpa and Grandma Krejci would come over with their piles of gifts for the three grandchildren, and when we were very young Santa Claus would always arrive (Yes, the real live deal). Anticipation would build for days leading up to Christmas Eve and in our minds, while we understood that Christmas Day was all about Jesus, Christmas Eve was about presents. I remember our parents telling us why we exchanged gifts on Christmas, to celebrate the birth of Jesus – the gift of Emmanuel to the world – and we did eventually appreciate this as we got older. But I have to admit, to our preschool minds, my brother, sister and I would be thinking about Christmas Eve presents with extreme anticipation. So extreme, in fact, that my mom would always plan on “one gift” we could open the night before Christmas Eve. It was always a small gift but something that would keep us busy on Christmas Eve day.

Well, in this spirit, I am here to tell you that I have a gift for everyone in the Diocese of Crookston and, OK, you can open this gift before Christmas. This is a gift for every married couple and for everyone who thinks they might one day get married. It is a gift that one or both parents can share with their children or grandparents with their grandchildren. What could this gift be? The gift is an increase in the presence of prayer in your family life. Specifically, the gift is a series of YouTube videos that explains how spouses can pray with each other and how parents can pray with their children. The episodes contain brief explanations (3-5 minutes) about how to pray in your home. Over the eight episodes you will be introduced to different ways you can pray with your spouse and with your children and, in addition, linked to each video are prayers that you can use at home.

Some of you may be thinking, “What kind of present is that?! This sounds about as exciting as the pajamas grandma always gave us at Christmas.” Perhaps others are thinking, “What kind of present is that?! We already pray as a family.” If you had the second reaction, then you have already received the real gift – the greater presence of God in your lives. One thing I can suggest to families who already pray is that you might want to look at some of the linked prayers for your use.

If you are wondering, “How is praying with my family a present?” remember that prayer is a conversation with God and what a wonderful thing it would be if every married couple and family spent even as little as one or two minutes together in prayer every day? If you are not praying in your home, I suggest that you watch the first episode and use the attached short prayer to begin a regular prayer routine.

To find this present, CLICK HERE where you will see the list of eight episodes and the corresponding prayers for each episode. If you like the Diocese on Facebook (@DioCrookston) you will also begin to receive notices about the episodes over the next few weeks.

I am often asked “What is something we can do to strengthen our marriage, to become more connected as a family, to keep our kids engaged in the faith?” The common answer to all three questions is to PRAY! And remember, you do not even have to wait until Christmas to open this present. OK, watching me in a video may not be much of a present but that is not what is being given away. No, the priceless treasure that you will unwrap with your prayer is a deeper relationship with God and a stronger presence of God in your family. God yearns for us to open our hearts to his grace, and prayer is a great way to do this. Merry Christmas to one and all, and remember to keep “Praying With the Family.”